Meghan Markle’s initial marriage to film producer Trevor Engelson provides real-life lessons that can shape her present marriage to Prince Harry. Meghan was estranged from her former husband in 2013 and encountered many issues that serve as a reference for any celebrity couple with personal and professional pressures.
Giving priority to communication in long-distance relationships
Meghan was working as an actor for the television series Suits during her marriage to Trevor Engelson; her work necessitated her moving to Toronto, while Engelson stayed back in Los Angeles. However, the distance affected their marriage deeply. Hence, this validates that good communication is very crucial, particularly with regard to distance. Frequent open communication and checking up with one another are essential for long-distance couples.
Balancing career with marital obligations
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Both Meghan and Engelson had stressful careers in the entertainment industry, which may have contributed to their marriage issues. Engelson reportedly felt overshadowed as Meghan’s career rocketed forward.
Even as individual ambition is crucial, one must ensure that both are supported and appreciated in their endeavors.
Maintain support networks
Meghan’s close friendship with her maid of honor, Ninaki Priddy, did not survive the divorce. Priddy was stunned by the speed with which Meghan ended her marriage and indicated that something had changed in Meghan during her ascent into fame. Long-term friendships can help offer emotional stability and perspective, particularly during periods of life transition.
Aligns goals and values
Long-term goals and differences in values can cause conflict in a relationship. Some commentators have suggested that Meghan’s desire for fame may differ from Harry’s desire for an unrevealing life founded on philanthropy.
Communication on a daily basis and the reaching of consensus on common objectives and values are required for peace in a relationship.
Address divorce or breakup with respect and compassion
The way that Meghan ended her marriage—allegedly by sending back her rings—wounded and surprised Engelson.
Breaking up with kindness and honesty can allow both partners to get closure and move forward in a more positive manner.
